You heard it right folks, I am married!!!! like how it’s happen? well it happened during the time I’m not writing this blog, since I’m busy with wedding preparation and life.
How’s the wedding??? well it’s super long to tell so another post for the wedding 😉 so this post definitely going to skip the wedding and straight to my married life. Hmmmmm I have nothing but grateful for everything, I’m not yet experience a full married life since we still didn’t live together yet, but we are planning on doing it next year which is going to be in 2 weeks, like 2018 is super near y’all *gasps*
The married life as I experienced it so far had been wonderful, I mean we known each other for like 10 years; next year, and been together for 7 years now married to each other for about 5 months, plus minus and yetttt there is still so much I didn’t know about my lovely, deary and amazing husband. Like literally he is all that, lovely, deary, amazing and so many more words can’t describe. I mean I know him before, but nowwwwww, he is more wonderful. So I can’t be more grateful that I married my husband. Thank you Allah 🙂
At first it was kind of hard adjusting life as a husband and wife, we both confuse and lost, still are mind you. But we are learning and it was super awesome. Of course me, a lazy and love to sleep person don’t want to change my habit, I would rather die than change it but as a sane person, I have to do something, I can’t continue lazing around my bed, watching movies, drama series and everything internet has to offer, can I?
But my husband is a patient person, like Korean drama would say, you must save a country in your previous life to get this kind of luck, maybe I did 😉 he wanted to changed me, in a good way but he do it slowly and patiently that my stubborn ass felt so sorry for him and decided, okay I’ll do it for you. But change need time, I mean you want me to jog in the morning? that pushing it mister! he also wants us to pray together, which is good and as a good wife and muslim, I should obey buttttt I felt like, the request disturb my lazy ass so sometimes I rebel. And since he was understanding husband we made an agreement that we pray together 3 times a day instead of 5, where I am okay with that.
I am a stubborn human being, there’s a lot of thing piss me off so disturbing my movie times was one of it, you can understand why I fought so hard for my right, can you? When I mean change it’s not like he wanted for me to be someone else, he just wanted me to adjust my time for him, okay? I’m still a feminist in heart and I don’t think it’s right for a guy to ask a woman to change her behavior just for him.
I don’t cook everyday for him since we are not living together, but we do have weekend home so every free weekend we stay together, sometimes I cook, most of the times we eat out. But when I cook, he also want to be in the kitchen to help, which I think so amazing. Even when I want to cook for him like a good wife I am he wanted to help -_-. Thank you to my MIL for raising such a rajin boy that like to help woman in the kitchen 🙂 and now I’m sick he literally do everything 🙂
I think that’s all for now, okay my husband is not beside me forcing me to write wonderful thing about him. In fact he is at work leaving his laptop behind so his sick wife is not lonely.
P/S: Is blogging still cool? or is it too early 2000’s?