Drama Review: Younger

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I don’t know why I don’t watch this series earlier! like as soon as I know about it, because I notice this series like couple years ago. But I didn’t watch it when I first knew about it. But I ran out of drama series to watch and Hilary Duff is in it so I was like, why not?

This drama is based on a book with the same title, Younger. This drama revolve around Liza, a forty years old divorcee who found out her whole world collapse when she found out her husband cheated on her. Then she need to find a job in order to support herself and her daughter. She went to every publishing company but they didn’t hire 40 something year old lady since the 20 something also has the qualification to do the job. This when it all happen, Still Liza, butttt 26 years old now, yeah she kind a cheated her age to get a lousy job. A Personal Assistant that is!

So now she got the job, a PA to this awesome lady boss, at first watching this you will not find her as awesome boss but soon you will 😉 and because she is old, she kind a handle it pretty well, oh how I want Liza experience but in my age duhhhh. so at that company, she met Hilary Duff or known as Kelsey, they became best friend because Kelsey is a nice person who help Liza a lot. To make matters complicated, Liza has a new boyfriend around my age, a cool tattoo artist name Josh, and Josh practically in love with Liza and yes he doesn’t know her real age….  but then he knows, I can’t remember how he knows, but good news he still love her, or does he? well you need to watchhh if you want to know!

See how complicated is that? I mean like you have this other life you have to hide from this new people you just meet. I watched this series untill season 3 to be honest, then I don’t have time to watch it but I am planning to continue becauseeeee well the story line is good and full of surprise, definitely can be categorized as guilty pleasure drama series. Guys watch it pleaseeeee, for god sakes, Hilary Duff in it, and when is the last time you guys watch Hilary Duff in TV? I know, it was when she Guest Star in Gossip Girl right? like thousand years agooooo.

 

P/S: Hmmmm but if you are 40 you definitely don’t want to admit it right?

 

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New Year

I stopped having new year resolution like 5 years ago. Because I know how useless it is, like literally. I never ever do it so why bother?

But this year I was like let’s have new year resolution, like a doable one. So I think of few,

  1. Reading more books. Sooo I read so less book last few years, which is super sad. I love bookssss,
  2. Save money, this sound so impossible because I spent so much on shopping, but I will try.
  3. Pray 5 times a day, like no skip
  4. Be kinder, to everyone. To my family especially! Never too late.

I think this list is doable right?

P/S: It’s okay just to recycle your last year resolution.

Married Life

You heard it right folks, I am married!!!! like how it’s happen? well it happened during the time I’m not writing this blog, since I’m busy with wedding preparation and life.

How’s the wedding??? well it’s super long to tell so another post for the wedding 😉 so this post definitely going to skip the wedding and straight to my married life. Hmmmmm I have nothing but grateful for everything, I’m not yet experience a full married life since we still didn’t live together yet, but we are planning on doing it next year which is going to be in 2 weeks, like 2018 is super near y’all *gasps*

The married life as I experienced it so far had been wonderful, I mean we known each other for like 10 years; next year, and been together for 7 years now married to each other for about 5 months, plus minus and yetttt there is still so much I didn’t know about my lovely, deary and amazing husband. Like literally he is all that, lovely, deary, amazing and so many more words can’t describe. I mean I know him before, but nowwwwww, he is more wonderful. So I can’t be more grateful that I married my husband. Thank you Allah 🙂

At first it was kind of hard adjusting life as a husband and wife, we both confuse and lost, still are mind you. But we are learning and it was super awesome. Of course me, a lazy and love to sleep person don’t want to change my habit, I would rather die than change it but as a sane person, I have to do something, I can’t continue lazing around my bed, watching movies, drama series and everything internet has to offer, can I?

But my husband is a patient person, like Korean drama would say, you must save a country in your previous life to get this kind of luck, maybe I did 😉 he wanted to changed me, in a good way but he do it slowly and patiently that my stubborn ass felt so sorry for him and decided, okay I’ll do it for you. But change need time, I mean you want me to jog in the morning? that pushing it mister! he also wants us to pray together, which is good and as a good wife and muslim, I should obey buttttt I felt like, the request disturb my lazy ass so sometimes I rebel. And since he was understanding husband we made an agreement that we pray together 3 times a day instead of 5, where I am okay with that.

I am a stubborn human being, there’s a lot of thing piss me off so disturbing my movie times was one of it, you can understand why I fought so hard for my right, can you? When I mean change it’s not like he wanted for me to be someone else, he just wanted me to adjust my time for him, okay? I’m still a feminist in heart and I don’t think it’s right for a guy to ask a woman to change her behavior just for him.

I don’t cook everyday for him since we are not living together, but we do have weekend home so every free weekend we stay together, sometimes I cook, most of the times we eat out. But when I cook, he also want to be in the kitchen to help, which I think so amazing. Even when I want to cook for him like a good wife I am he wanted to help -_-. Thank you to my MIL for raising such a rajin boy that like to help woman in the kitchen 🙂 and now I’m sick he literally do everything 🙂

I think that’s all for now, okay my husband is not beside me forcing me to write wonderful thing about him. In fact he is at work leaving his laptop behind so his sick wife is not lonely.

P/S: Is blogging still cool? or is it too early 2000’s?

 

 

 

Kursus Kahwin

If you live in Malaysia and if you are a muslim you must know that in order to get marry you must go to this kursus kahwin (marriae course). They will give you certificate that said, yes you can get marry…

So I went one last week since I’m going to get marry this July. I am a bit skeptical to go at first but this thing has to be done in order to get marry so I don’t have choice. I am skeptical because I really don’t think this two days course will change anything. after all if you look at statistic it said that 11 Malaysian couple divorce every 1 hour so you can just imagine how bad the situation is in Malaysia. I guess 50% or more went to the course. But of course I learn a lot from the course, they teach the procedure to get marry in Malaysia which I appreciate it so much.

They also teach? share? reasons why husband and wife argue a lot and yes, we can take this as part of education? but I can’t help but think that the speaker is a bit sexist. I can tolerate this a little but not sexist+sexual lecture, it’s really is annoying.And it get more complicated when everything is in the name of religion.For example, since Islam allow the husband to marry more than one, that thing is always been repeated as joke. Like really? then the speaker had nerve to say how if wife can’t have sex with husband during period and the husband is super horny what can the wife do so that the husband don’t marry another. Well if you are that shallow and easy I guess that’s how you decide -_-

But of course, there are things I agree with. But not that many hence I cannot remember any, see it’s rhyme! but they also gave situation that lead to divorce for us to take it as lesson, since they are also counselor and had to deal with this a lot of time. They also said that guy tend to be more skeptical to attend counseling for the reasons god know why and she remind to all husband to be, to be more open mind about it. It’s not like you air your dirty laundry in public.

I really hope this course will change as time change, make it more woman friendly? I mean the sharia’ law definitely favors the husband more than the wives and that is something that need to change!

 

 

Drama Review: Cheese in the trap

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Have I told you guys I am a hardcore K-pop lover? probably not hardcore but still pretty obsess.

So today, I’m going to tell you guys about this drama I super2 love. Everyone should really watch this drama, I’m telling you. This drama is based on webtoon with the same name. What is webtoon? please guys, live in the millennia -__- It’s like manga, comic but only available in web, hence the webtoon. At first you guys must think, typical romance drama about kids in university but hell no, it’s NOT!

Let me explain the character first, so we have Yoo Jung (main character), Hong Seol (the heroin), Baek In Ho and Baek In Ha (the twin) and Jang Bora and Kwon Eun Taek (Seol friends). I mean of course on first look it will look like typical lovey dovey drama, guy likes girl try to win her heart, yadayada but it more complex since it start with Yoo Jung kind of weird personality (Yoo Jung sunbae pls don’t hate me for calling your personality weird.) He has this call a victim mentality. Thanks to his dad -_- basically his weird and dark personality make Hong Seol hate him and try to stay away from him.

Seol really want to stay away from Yoo Jung sunbae, since his so twisted and smart. He successfully make Seol life in Uni a disaster one. But amazingly the next semester he likes her and try to befriend her. The freak out Seol obvi don’t want that. I mean he did make Seol want to quit her study, so go figure how hellish her life was. But since he likes her now, he tried to make up for it by being extra nice to her. And then Seol doubt herself, like is he really that evil? or is he nice? then she get to know her and realize his just like a kid. The rest, you guys should really watch it. Other than their relationship this drama also focus on student life, family, self-problem and a lot more.

So you might want rethink again about not watching this drama. It’s so good. It told the story of uni student so well. I mean I already told half the story don’t you guys want to know more? I bet you guys do.  Well the drama was done beautifully, all the character match well with the webtoon and it almost 99% follow the webtoon except the ending. Like the ending caused an uproar in Korea. People literally went nuts since the director didn’t do it the way it should be. But to be fair the webtoon is still ongoing during the drama. Still the director can make it a little better!

 

 

Movie Review: Arrival

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I must be on fireee! two post two days in a row! hahahahha I just watched this movie yesterday so I don’t want to forget. I tend to easily forget movie I watched.I love alien invasion, sci-fi movie. So that’s why I super excite for this movie. Alsoooo this movie has Amy Adams (people say she is the new Leonardo Di Caprio since she’s in all great movie  and act awesomely but didn’t get recognition she deserve)

SPOILER ALERT!

Soooo it’s start with of Amy Adams narrates story about her daughter. Wait, Adams character was call Louise. So the flash back scene of  the daughter is dying of cancer and she was devastated. Then, present time! an UFO landed in US and 12 others location around the world. it just float there and open their door every 18 hours to let human enter their spaceship probably to let human chat with them. So every expert around the country try to communicate with them and ask why are you here? what is your purpose of coming here? things like that. Human is super terrified if the alien want to destroy all human.

But the thing is the language is different so this where Louise come in, she is a language lecturer and US Govt need her help to translate what the alien were saying. So Louise and Ian ( played by Jeremy Ranner) try to translate and understand the language. So after I guess a month of handwork they finally understand, what the alien were saying but using writing. It’s kind a hard to understand what they were saying since they practically make sounds only. Ooo and the aliens were call Heptapods. They kind a look like giant squids.

So when the finally get to ask the aliens why they are here, the aliens said Give weapons? aaaa I don’t remember! but something like that and that result in chaos, human get all defensive and ready to war! I guess that’s why we will always be the under develop planet  -_-

Okayyy that’s all… watch it, read it since this movie is also based on a novel title, Story of your life. This movie definitely no Interstellar or Sign  but you can definitely feels the connection. Nowadays when I watch movie, I try to imagine what if I was reading the book instead of watching the movie? well this movie is superb as a book.

Introvert

I never thought of myself as introvert before. I think I’m just socially awkward and everyone is like that when they meet other people. Not in my 25 years of life I thought I am an introvert. So… when I read all this introvert stuff I felt weirdly connected. So i read and search more about this condition and wallahh, I guess I am kind of introvert but not the severe one laa, just so-so. Thank god, how more socially awkward I can be if I’m super introvert?

Everyone, please take this test to know what kind of person are you?

http://www.lifehack.org/articles/communication/like-introvert-extrovert-ambivert.html

Hmmmm…. let me tell you life of introvert, it isn’t necessarily mean you are shy it just mean, you are uncomfortable to talk to other people but when your are comfortable with the person you will talk until someone ask you to shut the fuck up! literally. So I have a few people I’m comfortable with, my family, my feyonce, my close friends (which you can literally count with 2 hands and you still have 1 finger left)

And we are easily socially exhausted. Like if I go out today, I don’t want to go out tomorrow. I already use all my social quota today. You get it? I just want to stay in my bed, watching movies, drama or reading. Don’t disturb please! And during a party you will be bored out of your mind and wish to go back home early even the party is full of people you will literally feel annoyed. I find myself to do that quite often. It’s not that I hate everyone. But I really2 treasure my alone time.

I guess other people when they meet socially awkward person they be like, why so awkward, get out from your comfort zone or why you do nothing all weekend? yada yada It just me being me and I it was GLORIOUS!